During the Spring Festival,http://yy602389.gongsi.in/news/html/?17492.html, the CCTV "Chinese New Year to go grass roots? Family tradition is what" series of reports, triggered public concern. There are "rich second generation" Family Style answer is, "not eating the old pit father"; family tradition is that the Hong Kong movie star said, "take a step backward, than for a big"; family tradition is still a child says, "Dad hit me once a week "; Some users are given" God replied ": My Family Style great ......
?What Nazan Shaanxi old family tradition is? Is the "White Deer" in the style of a traditional ancestral ritual Bai Jiaxuan letter, or an unusual family of seniority? Is written out to hang on the wall, or in the words of the parents, the subtle elders personally in the .........
"Four Generations" big family: father personally pass family traditions
"What is the spirit of our family is, in fact, family traditions." Turning to family tradition, the public Ms. Hui Xian Jie said, "My family have family traditions need heritage, such as hard-working and so simple." And she believes that these should summarize, not only rely on subtle, had cured to form a family as a philosophy of education and training.
Hui Jie's grandfather had hundred years old, my grandmother was 88 years old, the family 42 people, four generations. "Love between people and relatives in northern Shaanxi much walking. My grandfather had five sons and two daughters together every year reunion." Hui Jie said, while the Chinese New Year party is the most tired of her father, from years ago,http://tjluntan.w26-e2.ezwebtest.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=83741, began to prepare New Year festive dinner done, had to help her children. Over sixty people, have refused to take a break at noon, they manage RBI for the whole family, "These are family traditions passed on to the parents of the children personally."
"1 + 2 + 4" seven home: Family Style is heavy filial piety, harmony
"Our family had no so-called family tradition of saying that ordinary families live, everyone and harmoniously." Who lives in the south of Xi'an, Zhang Yun said, "If you want to summarize that harmony." He Jiangang Du Yun and her husband only child, 6-year-old son usually taken care of by both parents take turns, the typical "1 + 2 + 4" families can get along, Mr Cheung said:. "It is inseparable from the elders inclusive"
"One time my dad sick, busy busy to take care of before and after her husband, my dad said this is just the father built the family tradition of filial piety heritage well." Yun said. said that although the child is still small, but also from the family's live weekdays with the understanding of filial piety, the last grandma birthday, he gave her grandmother prepared a birthday card, so that the whole family were very pleasantly surprised.
85 After the wedding the young couple: husband wife money to spend but also heritage
And after 85 Wu Jing's answer to some "naughty", and she thought, "Family Style" is the husband wife money to spend.
Wu Jing married last year, these small family of "Family Style" Nature does not like that heavy traditional family. Wu Jing said she and her husband are 85 after both parents home in northern Shaanxi, married in order to make time to take care of her husband, she had a lawyer only legal advice, "two people live at home, are too busy no one would Gu the "Wu Jing said:" the men outside the women of this Chinese traditional view of marriage is justified husband hard earn money, I give up a little business, take good care of the home trivial thing,http://www.muhedm.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=312112&fromuid=34361, a good guardian of this small. home, do live in harmony, not to worry about their parents,http://www.xinboyazs.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=1022, even if it is a heritage of family traditions. "
Family tradition of debate
Tolerance, mutual love each other Zuifan complain
While this young couple did not think after 85 family traditions exist in the traditional sense, but discussions with colleagues in the office, we realized: family traditions Liang Zi, modern though not mention, but it will in potentially affected.
For example, 25-year-old colleague, Wang believes that the democratic style of their own home, the family encountered anything, my parents would call a meeting to discuss the children together, never extreme pressure; while 46-year-old Zhang most direct experience of family tradition is long Young orderly, parental authority, "My Father more than 70 years old, and now an angry stare I also timid, afraid to argue."
Turning favorite family tradition, and we talk about the most is the one who can understand each other, honesty, trust, the old saying Family Harmony, and mutual understanding, mutual goodwill release, is home and premise.
Turning annoying "family tradition" is a relative become the consensus of people complain about each other, habitual grumble, "complained mutual accusations will become a family atmosphere," this trend will let family members are very uncomfortable, also affect the mentality of doing things.
Family tradition of thinking
Impact of the weakening of the family become increasingly important heritage
The street CCTV question "Family Style", also led many people to think hot conferences.
"Personally feel that family tradition is a form of Chinese traditional farming culture, character traits of a family, which is formed by a variety of reasons." Said Mr. Han people in Xi'an, such as ethnic occupation, social status, etc., and now a small family unit to twelve people, family awareness continue to be subtracted, then the fear is more difficult to talk about family traditions.
User "JasonLee" said urbanization accelerated, accelerated population movement on the one hand, on the other hand the collapse of the traditional "family",http://www.77shike.com/news/html/?8684.html, a people scattered in different places of work life separate space affects the "Family Style" formation, family influence can not say no, but has been weakened a lot. In this regard, renowned cultural scholar Zhang Yiwu, said in an interview, the connotation of traditional Chinese family education Celestial family heirlooms will change with the times, but the core values ??do not change. Modern society is divided into small family units, carry forward the fine traditions tutor can convey subtle social norms, social values ??will naturally improve.
In this regard, many people said that identity, and said, showing the importance of family traditions more so the more inheritance. "I'll think about it, to sum up who learned from their elders, and the inheritance to the children what character traits." Some people say that.
What family traditions influence over our family motto
For thousands of years, Chinese people experienced a kind of family tradition to shape and change? What family traditions and family motto influence over us?
● "Wuchang Bade": the traditional Confucian family tradition origin
Family tradition, also known as house style, in the Chinese traditional feudal patriarchal system, the Chinese people are very focused on court training tutor, family traditions have said plowing the fields at home, have said good deeds, have said Rensiao incorruptible, by the ancient Chinese traditional Confucian family tradition profound impact, can be roughly summed up as "Wuchang Bade": Wuchang is the "Wisdom and Faith," Bade for "One Charity Lutheran peace."
● "Family Instructions": the traditional Chinese family traditions Declaration
Southern and Northern Dynasties, Northern Qi Dynasty thinkers tui to exhort sons not to count on the door first, arrogance Yat laziness,mulberry outlet, but also hope that children can not fall Nobles Gate Wind maintain, and wrote about 40,000 multi-word "Family Instructions" to the traditional Confucian education children how Slim, household management,http://www.nuright.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1223864&fromuid=481328, life skills, for science. "Ancient family motto, as a progenitor." According bibliography listed in "China Series Fully recorded," recorded in ancient China published "home training" There are over one hundred and twenty kinds, "the German Slim" is each family Training the core content.
● "Zeng Letter": teach children generation "thrifty Qian"
"Zeng Letter" recorded Zeng Qing dynasty Tongzhi after 30 years to 10 years ago,http://bbs.longmen.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=76813&fromuid=39689, 30-year career, John Court and from the military, nearly 1500, the main activities included Zeng's life and its governance governance, statesman, scholarly way. At his home in the book,http://www.fxhd1080.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=1064199, determined on many of the later determined pursuant begged, encourage each discipline. In terms of who tutor children, Zeng advocate frugal, hard scholarship, good-neighborly friendship, reading sensible. At home he wrote: "I teach children's generation to the extent that the words based thrift Him."
Newspaper reporter Ren Jiao
(Original title: we very traditional old family tradition Shaanxi)